Sunday, June 12, 2011

A Little Something.....called Burned Biscuits

 When I was a kid, my Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then.  And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.  On that evening so long ago, my Mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad.  I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my Mom and ask me how my day was at school.  I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that ugly burned biscuit.  He ate every bite of that thing... never made a face nor uttered a word about it! When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my Mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits.  And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits every now and then." Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned.  He wrapped me in his arms and said,
"Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired.  And besides - a little burned biscuit never hurt anyone!" As I've grown older, I've thought about that many times.  Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect
 people.  I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries  just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship. And that's my prayer for you today... that you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God.  Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship.  In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship! "Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own." So, please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burned one will do just fine.
 Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. "Life without God is like an unsharpened pencil - it has no point."

-Author Unknown
My brother sent me this in an email and find it comforting.
Things in life tend to dull our senses. We become jaded in our everyday living, we don't take time to just stop and look around, or take a deep breath. There are times where we see only imperfection in everything that surrounds us. for me, sometimes it's those little imperfections that make life a bit sweeter.
My life is hectic at times, I work many hours, I stray from my goals. I don't write in my blog for weeks or months at a time. I get sad or depressed when things don't work in my favor and at times I feel like I'm in a huge hole without a ladder.  I want things for me to be better when I should be thankful for what I have. I am.
I'm not perfect, far from it, but I am thankful for those little imperfections because they are precious to me and keep me humble.